“Come!” It seems like such a simple request, but for many dog owners, it’s one of the hardest things to teach. You call your dog, and instead of running happily toward you, she stands frozen, bolts in the opposite direction, or flat-out ignores you. Frustrating, right?

But here’s the good news: teaching your dog to come when called isn’t about dominance or control—it’s about trust, consistency, and reinforcement.

Why Coming When Called Matters

A reliable recall can literally save your dog’s life. It’s also critical in aggressive dog training. If your dog tends to lunge, growl, or snap at others, being able to call her away quickly and reliably prevents dangerous situations and keeps everyone safe. A strong recall isn’t just a convenience; it’s peace of mind.

The Sacred Promise of Recall

Successful recall is built on one principle: when your dog hears the cue to come, something great always follows.

Think of it as a sacred promise. If you call your dog with “Come!” she can count on you to make it worthwhile every single time. That might mean a piece of chicken, cheese, or another irresistible treat. Praise and affection are wonderful too—but food is the fastest way to a reliable recall.

Here’s the process:

Pick your recall word. Keep it short and clear. “Come!” is my go-to.
Say “(Dog’s name), come!”
When she comes, immediately praise and treat. Every. Single. Time.
Start practicing at very short distances with no distractions.
Gradually increase both distance and distractions only when your dog is succeeding consistently.

I recommend 15–25 single-rep sessions per day. Short, fun, consistent training sessions help build the habit.

Why Punishment Fails

It can be tempting to punish your dog for ignoring you, but punishment destroys trust. If your dog learns that “Come” sometimes leads to scolding, leash pops, or confinement, she’ll avoid you. After all, who would run toward punishment?

Shock collars and other aversive tools may appear to work in the short term, but they come with serious risks:

Increased anxiety and fear around people and other dogs.
Higher likelihood of aggression.
Damaged relationship between you and your dog.

Positive reinforcement, on the other hand, teaches your dog that coming to you is always safe, rewarding, and fun.

Building a Dog Who Loves to Come

Think of recall training as building your dog’s favorite game. When you call, it should feel like an invitation to something wonderful. That way, whether she’s sniffing in the yard, chasing a squirrel, or facing a stressful encounter, she’ll trust that running back to you is always the best option.

With time, practice, and lots of reinforcement, you can turn “Why won’t my dog come when called?” into “Wow, my dog always comes when called.”