Dog Training is Experiential

Michael Baugh CDBC

I can show you dog training techniques, the timing, the mechanics, the way your hands and body move. That part matters. You can learn a lot from dog training books, from articles, even from watching good trainers online. Those things help. But nothing replaces the experience of doing the work yourself.

Dog training is experiential. It isn’t something we do to our dogs. It’s something we do with them. We learn it in the same way they do: by trying, adjusting, and feeling it out as we go.

Mechanical Skills: Learning Through Movement

Effective dog training is physical. How we reach for the treat bag matters. The direction we turn our shoulders matters. Even whether we’re sitting, standing, or walking matters. Dogs see all of it.

Humans are natural imitators, so watching a skilled trainer can give you a great head start. But the learning really begins when you try it.

Your dog will teach you, too. Pay attention to how they respond to your movements, your posture, your facial expressions, even a small shift of your weight. These subtle cues shape the conversation between you and your dog.

There’s no perfecting this by reading alone. You only learn the dance by dancing.

Timing: The Art of Seeing the Moment

Good timing is all about the eyes. We reinforce as the behavior happens or just after, not minutes later, not even several seconds later.

That doesn’t mean you need to deliver the treat quickly. In fact, reaching for the treat bag too soon often distracts the dog. Instead, we use a marker like a clicker, or a consistent word that tells the dog, “Yes, you got it right, and your reward is coming.”

You can absolutely watch an experienced trainer do this. But great timing comes from practice. You build that skill rep by rep, moment by moment, until your marker feels almost automatic.

What About Board and Train?

People ask this a lot: “Can’t someone just train my dog for me?” We’ve all heard about the neighbor’s dog who went to “boot camp.” Some programs help; some cause real harm.

A positive-reinforcement board and train can give your dog a solid foundation. The most reputable programs require follow-up sessions so you learn how to continue the work at home. Take those seriously. Ask the trainer to coach you while you practice. Their expertise gets things started, but your involvement keeps it going.

Avoid trainers who rely on physical corrections, shock collars, or verbal intimidation. These so-called balanced dog training methods can damage a dog’s emotional well-being. And if you stayed with that approach, you’d be learning how to hurt your own dog. None of us brings a dog into our life to do that.

Training Together: The Real Reward

Training with your dog is a beautiful experience. It’s fun, sometimes messy, sometimes awkward, always deeply connecting. You’re learning about your dog while your dog is learning with you.

You’ve heard me say it before: training is communication. It’s one of the most meaningful conversations you’ll ever have with your dog.

So get in there. Try the thing. Allow yourself to feel uncoordinated at first. Work it out together. Keep going.

This is how great relationships form — through presence, effort, and shared experience. You bring your whole self, your dog brings theirs, and something remarkable grows between you.

 

Michael Baugh CDBC teaches dog training in Houston TX and online. He specializes in aggressive dog training.

Walking Together On Leash

A good leash walk isn’t about control. It’s about connection. When we walk with our dogs, we’re moving together through the world, communicating with subtle cues and shared attention. The leash is just a safety line. The real magic happens in the space between us.

Positive reinforcement training is our foundation here. Start by rewarding your dog for checking in with you. A simple glance in your direction earns a treat, a soft smile, or a kind word. Those little moments of connection are gold. They tell your dog, “I like this. Stay with me.” Over time, that attention becomes a habit, and the walk becomes smoother and more joyful.

Distractions are inevitable,  a squirrel dashing by, a dog across the street, a tempting smell. Instead of fighting those moments, prepare for them. Keep distance when you can, and reinforce generously when your dog notices something exciting but stays calm. If it’s too much, that’s okay. Step back, take a breath, and reset. Success builds on success, not struggle.

Remember, leash walking is a skill — for both of you. It’s about building trust with your dog, timing, and patience. Celebrate the small wins, because those are the steps toward something beautiful: two beings moving through the world together in sync, side by side.

Aggressive Dog Training – What Philosophers and Saints Teach us about Trust

Michael Baugh CDBC

We want to trust our dogs. It’s hard when they have a history of aggressive outbursts, though. Many of my clients tell me, “I don’t want to worry all the time.” I understand that. Our trust returns as our dog’s behavior changes.

I think our dogs want to trust us, too. We control so much of their lives, the people they encounter, the sights and sounds, and the spaces they have to navigate. How our dogs make choices depends on how we set up their environment.

Can our dog trust us?

St. Francis of Assisi, the patron saint of animals, teaches us that we build trust with actions. “Start by doing what is necessary; then do what is possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible.” St. Francis echoes the philosophers Aristotle and the Buddha, who also taught compassionate action to build and nurture trust.

When we are helping fearful and aggressive dogs, we are teaching them they are safe. This is sometimes hard. Many dogs have a history of being betrayed or hurt. The world and the humans in it have not been safe for them. If we follow the wisdom of ancient philosophers and saints, we begin with simple, patient acts, and transformation follows naturally. Trainers and dog guardians don’t change a dog’s behavior. Our compassion creates a space for them to change themselves.

Here are some dos and don’ts.

🚫 Don’t punish your dog for having feelings. Be safe and limit your dog’s ability to hurt someone or himself. But scolding or physically hurting your dog never helps.

🚫 Don’t bribe your dog into a scary situation using food. I see this most often when people use treats to lure their dogs closer to new people, or worse yet, the veterinarian.

🚫 Don’t rush. Avoid demanding behaviors you haven’t taught yet or that are too hard to perform in stressful situations. This can make your dog’s fear and aggressive displays worse.

✅ Use food to teach reliable, calm behavior. Dogs love patterns for navigating tough situations.

✅ Gently support your dog through challenges. It helps.

✅ Practice routines in low-stress situations and build the difficulty level gradually. (see “Don’t Rush” above).

“Not to hurt our humble brethren [the animals] is our first duty to them; but to stop there is not enough. We have a higher mission: to be of service to them whenever they require it.” – St. Francis of Assisi

You are your dog’s safe place. Keep that in mind as you go. Yes, living with a dog who has big feelings is stressful. I walk that path with my clients every day. But here is what else is true. Our dogs, especially our dogs with emotional challenges, have so much to teach us. They make us better people, more patient, more compassionate. Smarter. They teach us how to walk the earth more lightly, more lovingly. With them. With each other.

Michael Baugh specializes in aggressive dog training. He is an avid student of dogs and the human condition.