Adding Another Dog to your Family

Michael Baugh CPDT-KA, CDBC

Dear Michael:

Hello! I’m wanting to get another dog. I already have a German Shepherd who is 3 and he’s my world! But I would love another. The problem is he is very protective of me and literally never leaves my side. He IS my best friend and I don’t know how he’d react to another dog sharing my attention. What is the best way to introduce him to another, and is it best to get a pup or an older dog, bitch or male? I am very nervous of introducing them so would just like any tips or advice.

Thanks, Anna

Dear Anna,

The best indicator of your future success introducing a new dog to your home is your dog’s past success with other dogs.  Dogs, like humans, are social animals.  However, social behavior is like any other behavior.  The more you practice it, the better you get at it.  If your dog has a rich history meeting and playing with other dogs, then you’ll have an easier time introducing a new dog to your home.

If that’s the case with your dog, the best way to introduce him to a prospective housemate is at a neutral location.  I recommend letting them meet first on-leash, but make sure both dogs have plenty of slack on the leash so that they can interact and move freely.  Too often, people put too much tension on their dog’s leashes and this can lead to trouble.  This process will go much more smoothly, of course, if both dogs involved have experience greeting other dogs while on-leash.  If the dogs do well in that initial meeting, you can let them interact off-leash.  Supervise them closely for any signs of conflict, and make sure you have another person on hand if you need to separate the dogs from each other.

Juno with a stray dog who eventually found a new home.

That brings me to another point: the other dog.  I highly recommend adopting a dog from a shelter or a reputable rescue group.  Many rescue dogs will have lived in a foster home with other dogs, and in that case you’ll be able to get a pretty good idea of how that dog gets along with other dogs.  Choose the most socially savvy dog you can find, regardless of age or sex.  You can teach an old dog new tricks, but it’s harder to teach a grumpy dog to be nice.  Besides, you and your dog deserve the friendliest companion you can find.

Most reputable rescue organizations will let you have a transitional period with your newly adopted dog.  You’ll want to give the new dog a chance to learn the rules of your house (I always recommend remedial potty training), while introducing access to the home one room at a time.  This is a good time to observe how your current dog is getting along with the newcomer (supervise all interactions).  Generally speaking, you’ll know if things aren’t going well in the first couple of weeks.

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The Time for Truth

Michael Baugh, CPDT-KA, CDBC

There are few things more controversial in the dog world than this plain-spoken statement.  You don’t have to use intimidation, pain or fear to train a dog. It is, of course, the truth.  We have century-old behavior science to back it up, hard evidence from dogs and dozens (if not hundreds) of other species.  Still, if you put the idea out there people will balk.  Humans are, in so many ways, a punishing species focused squarely on what is bad and how to “correct” it.  So many trainers still use fear and pain as a first choice in handling dogs.  Others fall back on it for “certain dogs” or “harder cases.”  They defend their positions with the fiction there will be “a case in which the dog’s life is at stake.”  Some dogs, they say, need to be punished.  They use more acceptable words like “firmness” and “discipline.”  The irony is that we won’t tolerate abuse of dogs in other contexts, but we tolerate it in training.  Rescue groups lament the suffering their fur babies have endured at the hands of ignorant former owners.  Some even suppose abuse that may have never actually happened.  Then these same rescue groups refer their dogs to people who openly and shamelessly brutalize and terrorize dogs in the name of training.

These are the same people, trainers and self-professed dog advocates, who will hurl their anger at the truth.  They will ignore the evidence of sound behavior science.  They will punish the facts here as they punish dogs, without thought or regard for what is right.  Some have already begun typing their fury in response to these words.  So be it.  This essay is not for them.

This is, instead, for the growing majority of trainers and behavior consultants who understand that the best learning happens in a relaxed, pain-free environment.  It’s for those who know that training is about contingencies and attaching value to behavior.  This essay is for those intelligent people who’ve already discovered that our relationship with dogs isn’t about who’s in charge; it’s about how we learn to communicate together.  They are the people who learn and teach and remember every day that training isn’t something we do to dogs; it’s something we do with them.  These words are for the reward-driven, science-based trainers who would never inflict fear or pain on any dog.  This essay is for them and it’s an open challenge, a call to action.

Find your voice and be heard.  Set your own fear aside.  Take solace in knowing that you are not only technically correct in your methods but also morally sound.  Stop waiting for change.  Make change happen.

There was a time when we thought the best way to eliminate pain-based training was to include it in our ranks, and educate the perpetrators.  That time has passed.  The Association of Pet Dog Trainers is now peppered with trainers who proudly use shock collars, prong collars and choke chains, trainers who throw things at dogs and shake cans at them, and trainers who all the while call themselves “positive.”  They are using The Association brand, founded on creating better trainers through education, and refusing to use that education to better themselves.  We must insist that our professional organizations set clear standards that reject pain and fear in training.

There was a time when certification was novel and a choice for the few.  Others were satisfied to opt out and rest on their own good reputations and skills.  That time, too, has passed.  If we do not distinguish ourselves collectively, we will be marginalized summarily.  The American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior recently published it’s “10 Life Threatening Behavior Myths about Dogs.”  It’s a handout for veterinarians to give to their clients.  Myth #9 is “Oh he has a behavior problem?  Send him to a trainer.”  The “myth” discourages contacting trainers for help, and instead encourages clients to consult their veterinarians (many of whom have no behavior education).  The veterinary community is being encouraged by their own leadership to marginalize our hard-fought expertise and professionalism as mythology.  We must insist on certification (if not licensure) within our profession if we are going to insist that other allied professionals recognize us.

There was a time when we were the new age trainers, the soft alternative to “traditional” trainers.  That time has passed, as well.  We are not the alternative. We are the standard-bearer.  There is no more time for ignoring the unacceptable behavior of pain-based trainers.  We all know that ignoring what is wrong is not enough to bring about change.  We don’t just ignore bad behavior; we starve it.  Let pain-based trainers (and those organizations who recommend them) wither in a market in which you flourish.  Focus your attention (and the attention of others) on the excellence of your work, and celebrate the means to those ends.  You are correct and morally sound.   Be heard.   Raise the banner high and let it be known that science-based and reward-driven training isn’t one way to train; it’s the way to train both quickly and effectively.  You know that is true.  We must speak this truth and speak it loudly.

There was a time when we could afford in-fighting and back biting among ourselves.  We played at competition with each other to our own demise.  Time’s up.  In Houston, many of the best reward-driven like-minded trainers in the market meet monthly.  We call each other with tough cases and refer to each other freely and frequently.  We are competitors and friends.  We work hard to secure each other’s success.  We also hold each other accountable under a common goal to eliminate the use of fear and pain in the name of training.  Our success individually and collectively helps dogs escape horror and brutality.  To that end, we must work together; and we do.

I remember a time when the future of dog training seemed assured.  Education alone would lead us to a time when all dogs were taught gently and intelligently.  The only dog whisperer was Paul Owens, and no one hurt dogs on TV for the sake of infotainment. No one worried about a coming “culture war” in dog training.  In time, pain-based training would just go away.  All we had to do was wait.  That time never came.  It won’t, unless we act.

We must reject pain-based training immediately and thoroughly.  Reclaim your professional organizations.  We must demand professional recognition from ourselves and our peers.  Certify and license dog training.  We must challenge ourselves to be the standard-bearers of training.  Starve out those who frighten and hurt dogs.  We must come together.  There’s no doing this alone.

These words are for you dear fellow trainers who are kind of heart, intelligent and gentle.  These words will bring on attacks, to be sure.  Cast them aside.  Humans are a hard species, especially when someone speaks out.  Nothing is more controversial, it seems, than the truth.

 

Children and Dogs

Guest Blogger, Curtiss Lanham CPDT-KA

Children and dogs: what a beautiful image that our minds immediately race to. The ‘Timmy and Lassie’ portrait is quickly conjured up…and they lived happily ever after. Not so fast…

The interesting thing is that kids don’t come pre-progrmmed to know how to interact properly with dogs, any more than dogs come pre-programmed to interact properly with kids. Read: adults now have to step-in and do something positive to ensure they do live happily ever after. So what can we adults do to ensure that our kids and our dogs will get along safely and happily? Here are three areas that we can concentrate on in this effort: Training-Socialization-Supervision

Training our Children

  • To respect the dog’s space, food and toys
  • To not treat the dog as a toy: don’t pull ears/tail/paws/nose, don’t ride the dog, don’t pull the dog around by it’s collar
  • To refrain from hugging dogs around the neck or put their face into the dog’s face
  • To refrain from screeching, screaming and squealing at the dog
  • To play ball, fetch, etc., but ONLY under adult supervision.

Training our Dogs

  • To know that children bring happy, fun things and are pleasant to engage with.
  • To trust that only good things happen with children
  • To respond to requests (sit, down, come, etc.) when asked by children so that they can communicate effectively together and strengthen their relationships
  • To understand the expectations of the household they live in

Socialize our Children

  • To dogs at an early age and expose them to a variety of breeds often and safely, but ONLY under adult supervision.

Socialize our dogs

  • To children at an early age (3 weeks to 3 months of age, if possible). Expose them to a variety of children often and safely, but ONLY under adult supervision. These meetings must always have a ‘happy ending’ for the puppy and the child.

Supervise

  • All interactions between children and dogs
  • Be watchful to ensure the children do not mishandle/mistreat the dog
  • Be watchful to ensure the dog is not stressed during the encounter: Stress signals may include some/ all of the following: yawning, lip licking, turning head/eyes away, lowering head/ears/tail, slinking away, crouching/hiding. Distance increasing signals by the dog may include some/all of the following: lip lifting, low growl, snarling, showing teeth, air snapping, etc. If any of these are observed, end the session immediately, quietly and calmly exit the child from the dog. Refrain from punishing the dog.
  • Ensure proper meet/greet by child
  • If you cannot supervise then exit the child from the dog so there is no possibility of improper encounter by either the dog or child

By putting this plan into action with your children and dogs your family will be on the road to loving, safe relationships. Relationships that transcend even the ‘Lassie and Timmy’ connection!

Houston/Katy Dog Trainer Curtiss Lanham, CPDT-KA is the co-owner of dogsmart, a Fulshear based canine behavior counseling and training group.